In this case I prayed and the the thought that came back was what I wrote about God saying not to wait, but He would provide as we went. I had a peace about this and felt strongly it was God. How I came to that place of hearing (and I'm certainly not always right) was through many years of experience. By experience I mean, making mistakes and trying to learn from them. Still sometimes making mistakes. I think a key thing for me was the willingness to take a risk, trusting that if I got it wrong, God would help me back onto the right track. Thanks for reading.